The Greatest Definition of Love

It’s to do with knowing and being known. I remember how it stopped seeming odd that in biblical Greek, knowing was used for making love. Whosit knew so-and-so. Carnal knowledge….

What is courage?

Courage is the measure of our heartfelt participation with life, with another, with a community, a work; a future. To be courageous is not necessarily to go anywhere or do…

What is our destiny?

We think in life there is some “there” we are supposed to get to, or some “something” we are supposed to do or some “someone” we are supposed to meet….

Inwardly, psychologically, be a nobody.

You will never get any more out of life than you expect. Keep your mind on the things you want and off those you don’t. Things live by moving and…

Притча за камъчето

Живял някога един младеж, който бил много нехаен и безотговорен. Родителите му вдигнали ръце от него и го пратили при един мъдрец да се учи на ум и разум. Мъдрецът…

The Paradoxical Psychology of Romance and Why Frustration Is Necessary for Satisfaction

All love stories are frustration stories… To fall in love is to be reminded of a frustration that you didn’t know you had (of one’s formative frustrations, and of one’s…

Ти…си този, който си!

Ти…си този, който си. Тоест: Ти не си този, който имам нужда да си. Ти не си този, който беше. Ти не си такъв, какъвто на мен ми е удобно….

Let go of control

Control in and of itself is resistance. And whatever we resist, persists. So, the minute positive focus becomes a tool of maintaining control over emotion, it now serves resistance instead…

The dark side

“People who are unable to stand within the dark places of life, those who are always running towards their happy places, are like candles without flames. There is no worth…

Зависимостта от мнението на другите

Когато не осъзнаваш зависимостта си от чуждото мнение живееш, треперейки да не би да бъдеш отхвърлен от другите, от които си се научил да се страхуваш. А цената, която трябва…